Years ago in the early part of my career and a new job heading an advertising agency, the owner asked me to make a huge billboard and put it up right in the centre of the agency. The board read “If you Don’t Ask, You Don’t Get”. His theory was that if you cannot articulate and “ask” for what you want, create or receive; then it becomes increasingly difficult for you to get it or for anyone to give it, cause no one knows what it is you are actually seeking.He wanted people in the agency to imbibe this culture, get it into the advertising agency thinking and wanted me to lead this effort.
I have contemplated this statement for the last 10 years and the truth hidden in it has repeatedly struck me. The statement can be extended to the metaphysical level – that is, if you don’t ask of the universe what you want, need or intend, how is it supposed to make that manifest in your life? Thus you must ask, to get. What is interesting is, that by asking – you are forced to think, clarify and find out want you truly want. This process refines and solidifies your intention. The act of asking, is actually the end product of your introspection into your wants, needs, desires and intentions.
